Coaching Makes the World Go Round
Coaching involves helping people reach their goals. Giving someone the solution to his problems is not a part of coaching. Coaching provides guidance, support, and motivation. When we think of coaching, usually sport coaching comes to mind. Football, soccer, baseball, and any other team sport usually require the help of a coach. Individual sports such as tennis and gymnastics also use coaches. People often forget that there are many other types of coaching out there.
Life coaching is a form of coaching many people are not familiar with. A life coach helps an individual learn how to focus and make changes in his life, in order to reach his life goals. Life coaching is more general than athletic coaching. Athletic coaching focuses on one specific area with a set end goal. Life coaching focuses on all areas in a person’s life. Life coaching is similar to athletic coaching in that both usually take time and are not accomplished over night. A life coach provides insight and empowerment to the individual to help him achieve things he could not otherwise achieve on his own. Typical areas that a life coach addresses are dating and relationships, health and weight, work life balance, and spiritual values.
Date coaching is another form of coaching. A date coach helps men and women improve their dating skills. Many people feel lost when it comes to dating. They may not be familiar with the modern day games and techniques involved in dating. A date coach can help people with their flirting and interactions with the opposite sex. He will teach them how to interpret signals or advances. He coaches on everything from where to meet the potential date to what to wear on the date. Typically the end goal in date coaching is the establishment of a long term, successful, fulfilling relationship.
Mentoring is a form of career coaching. A mentor is a person with specialized knowledge or skill in a particular area. He will guide someone with less skill or knowledge to help them gain experience that will benefit them in the long term. A youth mentor helps an adolescent make a smoother transition into adulthood. A person who is a good actor will not necessarily be good at coaching someone else to act well. The ability to teach is an important part of being an acting coach. A good acting coach should have either specialized knowledge in one area of acting or generalized knowledge that has helped many others to succeed. Many solid years of acting experience in addition to formal acting education is what many actors seek in a coach.
Teaching Your Autistic Child Basketball
Basketball is a great sport for kids to play. It is safer, requires less physical prowess and is less complex than many other sports. It is true that it requires some depth perception and height is a key benefit, but it is a great choice at early ages, and giving your child the experience of playing a sport will be a memory they keep forever.
It is very common for autistic children to have little interest in sports related activities, for example, basketball. When they are very young, they often start out with some interest, and will join a basketball team. After some time, the child may loose interest in venturing out on to the basketball court, or eventually may not want to attend practices or games at all. This can be very frustrating to parents, especially fathers or grandfathers that have fond memories of playing basketball and the life-long friendships they made being part of a team.
It is still possible for many autistic children, especially aspergers type, to have an interest and play basketball. What is important is that you do not have expectations that your child is going to follow of the traditional rules and expectations that most children do when joining a basketball team and learning the game. In fact, you may have to consider strictly recreational non-team style play. If your child is not able to follow and focus on the instructions, and is not responding well to the coach or other players, it may be time to consider going a different route. It is much more important that your child is happy and feels accepted, especially by the parents than you being happy that your child is part of a basketball team.
If you find that the team style basketball play is not working, consider having a regular play at home, or at a local park. Be sure to give your child some time away from the sport before doing this as it may not be received well. When your child starts to show some interest, be sure to keep things free-form. Do not worry about all the rules, skills, techniques and such. It is important to simply have the child enjoy the time spent with you, which happens to also be time spent holding and hopefully throwing a basketball.